
I arrived in Naples fully expecting to be ripped off. My guard was up. I clutched my bag tightly, switching it often to be on the building side rather than street side should, lest it be snatched off my shoulder as someone speeds by on a Vespa.
But day after day, I was pleasantly surprised at how nice, and how incredibly warm everyone was. Not in a hustling kind of way. Just
molto simpatico. Often with a brusque edge of course, but incredibly lovely none the less.
I thoroughly expected rugged edgy attitude. Naples is gritty, no doubt. But the city itself, and its inhabitants are undeniably warm, if you just give them the tiniest chance. Speaking enough--just barely--Italian to get by was helpful. But it’s amazing how far a per favore, ciao, or grazie mille will go. In Rome, I swear, people were not impressed and really didn’t seem to care if we were trying to speak Italian. In Naples, the effort made a distinct difference.
Flying in, the airport is relatively small, much smaller than, say, Rome’s Fiumicino. And my bag, freakishly, arrived in under 10 minutes. The taxi line outside was just a few steps away and within moments I was on my way to my hotel in the Centro Storico. I’d slept enough on the plane and was feeling brave enough already to take Naples head on and try my Italian out. The cab driver and I ended up chatting all the way to my hotel--all in Italian, though sometimes broken and we had to figure out what each other were saying. There was a soccer game, calcio, that night. Italy vs. Ireland, I think. It was on the radio in the cab. There’s not much traffic tonight, the driver explained, because it’s a big national game and everyone is inside watching it.
I found the epitome of the simultaneous grit and warmth of Naples on a city bus. I need to get a bus from he massively busy and congested Via Toledo, down to the port to catch the ferry to Ischia. I kind of knew where I was going, and I had a bit of a sense of which buses might get me there. I was keeping an eye out for bus 24 or 201. Quickly enough, one arrived. I asked the driver, “Va al porto?” “Vicino” (nearby) he replied, and waved me on board. I lug my bag on, and find a seat. After a few stops, and twists and turns of the route, I asked the driver “puo dirmi la fermata per il porto” (Can you tell me which stop for the port. Or close enough to that.) Two more stops he tells me. I return to my seat. All this and the conversation to follow in Italian, and to my delight, I’m keeping up.
An old man sitting across from me asks me if I’m going to the port. Yes, I tell him. Due piu, he tells me, two more, and holds up two fingers, to make sure I understand when I need to get off the bus.
“Vado al porto,” says a woman sitting behind me, joining the conversation.
The old man across the aisle says “Segui a lei,” follow her. This is quickly becoming a quintessentially Italian moment.
At my stop, the woman motions for me to follow her, as does the old man. The bus drivers calls back to me that this is the stop. So fantastic.
The woman goes on to literally lead me to the port. She’s going to Ischia too, so I should follow her to the ferry. After exiting the bus, she leads me, of course, through the most fully Naples-style human frogger experience of crossing the busy street.
Her name is Carmelina, and we talk a bit on the way to the ferry. “Capisci italiano,” you understand Italian, she says. “Un po’.” A little. “Brava,” she says. I fully savor the compliment from this Southern Italian woman. She looks back every so often as we make our way a couple blocks to the biglietteria, ticket stand at the port.
See, the thing about Naples is that much of it is crumbling and a bit tattered, but charming in subtle yet undeniable ways. Most notably, Naples is incredibly ALIVE. The the echoes of scooters and honking bouncing through narrow streets, mixed with the expressive chatter street vendors and people going about the day. Constantly huffing diesel fumes and cigarette smoke. A rich and warm palette of colors on buildings lining the incredibly narrow but orderly streets first laid out by the Greeks, and in the apartment buildings winding up into the hills.
This is not a place that will blunt the senses. It will hit them all. And it’s lovely. Intense, but lovely.